Sometimes, it's easy to tell our best friends that "All the guys are blind for not noticing you" and "If I am a guy, I would definitely fall for you." Of course it's easy, because in our real life, we would not experience something that happened like in THE HOT CHICK movie, where a girl ended up switching body with a guy. (Unless, you can prove your statement by changing your gender through all the operation and start chasing your own best friend, whom by the way, will feel odd and nauseating because you were her best friend and you were a girl, and would only remain friends with you, not more than that.) But changing your gender to become a male is a big difference with born as a guy. Get what I mean? I mean, guys have their own hormones and why some guys cannot seem to be sensitive to girls' feelings are just as mysterious as how women are not acting the way they think. Now I feel bad for stereotyping the guys, but oh well, the guys are stereotyping girls too, so I take back the guilty feeling. I hope I can do a research on how guys think and write a best-selling and earn zillions. *Don't wake me up*
Therefore, I could not make any promise like I can treat my girlfriend good if I were a guy or I can be a better mother if I were (Britney Spears?) or something like that. Becoming somebody is not just for a moment, but it's for the rest of our lives. So, there is nothing like, if I were you, I could do a lot things better because you still have no idea what it feels like to be in their shoes. Deciding is not only based on our thinking, it's based on the circumstances we are facing too. Every little decisions lead to another events, and another event leads to decision making. In the philosophy course that I took last semester, my lecturer said that we could not escape from making decision. Even when we said " I don't want to decide" we are already making a decision for not wanting to decide. See the logic?
There you go. Now, think before you say something which involves a lot of discussions. Whoa~
Therefore, I could not make any promise like I can treat my girlfriend good if I were a guy or I can be a better mother if I were (Britney Spears?) or something like that. Becoming somebody is not just for a moment, but it's for the rest of our lives. So, there is nothing like, if I were you, I could do a lot things better because you still have no idea what it feels like to be in their shoes. Deciding is not only based on our thinking, it's based on the circumstances we are facing too. Every little decisions lead to another events, and another event leads to decision making. In the philosophy course that I took last semester, my lecturer said that we could not escape from making decision. Even when we said " I don't want to decide" we are already making a decision for not wanting to decide. See the logic?
There you go. Now, think before you say something which involves a lot of discussions. Whoa~
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